{"id":7983,"date":"2016-09-24T12:22:51","date_gmt":"2016-09-24T16:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/?p=7983"},"modified":"2016-09-24T12:36:47","modified_gmt":"2016-09-24T16:36:47","slug":"is-that-a-lady-or-further-tales-from-the-gender-blender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/2016\/09\/24\/is-that-a-lady-or-further-tales-from-the-gender-blender\/","title":{"rendered":"“Is that a lady?!” or, Further Tales from the Gender Blender"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last night’s bus driver was extremely hung up on policing my gender, presumably to determine if I was performing female impersonation to avoid a $1.25 bus fare. The whole conversation was incredibly odd, especially since I told the driver three times<\/em> that I was the transfer in question and also because the driver directed all questions about my gender to the woman who ended up apologizing to me. [Later conversation with the passenger indicated that she clearly identified as a woman with feminine pronouns, so I feel confident in gendering her as such.] Apparently I was both dubiously gendered and<\/em> invisible.<\/p>\n

It’s bad enough that people clock me as female and\/or a woman, but I have a special loathing for being addressed as a lady. <\/em>As the counterpart to lord,<\/em> lady <\/em>connotes high status, nobility, and superiority. Thus it carries with it the worshipful objectification that women have suffered for centuries from the perspective of men who could not see them as fully human and equal beings. To be called a lady<\/em> is to be objectified and dehumanized against my will, an experience of which I am really not a fan. That is why I hate the term.<\/p>\n

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\"08imthetransfer\"<\/a> \"09yessheisokay\"<\/a> \"10imsorry\"<\/a> \"11beingmisgendered\"<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Last night’s bus driver was extremely hung up on policing my gender, presumably to determine if I was performing female impersonation to avoid a $1.25 bus fare. The whole conversation was incredibly odd, especially since I told the driver three times that I was the transfer in question and also because the driver directed all… Continue reading “Is that a lady?!” or, Further Tales from the Gender Blender<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[691,771],"class_list":["post-7983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-gender-policing","tag-mini-universe-photostory"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7983"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7998,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7983\/revisions\/7998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/oddpla.net\/modernwizard\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}