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Jareth as the alternative parent

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Ever since I spent about six hours on screencaps last weekend, I’ve been ruminating about L. Like Mirror Mask, its framing story involves an unhappy family. I asked myself how Sarah’s unhappy family affects her journey through the Labyrinth. Possible answer: It makes Jareth a parental substitute.

Note: Poor Jareth is doing double, triple, even quadruple duty in this movie. Rock star, fashion icon, pin-up boy, Byronic hero, antagonist, DAD?!!?! L is a freakin’ thematic goulash. Hmmmm, you could probably make an argument for Jareth as floating signifier, but that might mess up the entire pretense of the Realm… Anyway, click below for more.

“Practically broke down the door!”: Sarah’s unhappy family and Jareth’s alternative

You know there’s only about two seconds in Labyrinth when the entire family – Sarah, Toby, Sarah’s stepmom and Sarah’s dad – are in the frame together? After pouting at her stepmom, Sarah runs upstairs to the haven of her room. Exasperated stepmom watches her go as dad appears on the landing holding Toby. They’re not even looking at each other! No one’s happy in this family, and Sarah wants out. Where’s she gonna go?

Well, we know Sarah’s miserable. In the story that she tells Toby, she says that “her wicked stepmother always made her take care of the baby. And the baby was a spoiled child who wanted everything for himself.” In this snippet, Sarah’s anger at her stepmother comes through clearly; she dislikes stepmom because stepmom is trying to make Sarah behave live a normal, civilized older sister, e.g., one that occasionally babysits. Sarah also obviously dislikes the sheer fact of Toby’s existence; she calls him “spoiled” not because he is [he doesn’t seem to be] but because he gets comparatively more attention than she does. She resents her stepmom and dad’s focus on Toby. Finally, though Sarah’s dad is never spoken of, you can be sure she doesn’t think too highly of him either; after all, he’s the traitor who is no longer with Sarah’s birth mom, and he’s actively making Toby “spoiled” by paying attention to Toby. I’ve devoted an entire essay to the dissolution of Sarah’s parents’ marriage and its effects on Sarah, but suffice to say that the protagonist wants something different than what she’s got.

Sarah’s stepmom is not happy either because she can’t measure up to Sarah’s birth mom. First off, she looks nothing like Sarah’s mom. Sarah’s mom looked like an older version of Sarah: a glamorous, dreamy figure with long brown hair. Stepmom, with her brittle beauty – short frosted hair, drawn face, frown lines – looks more like a real person than Sarah’s mom the actor. Second, stepmom acts nothing like birth mom. Birth mom loved Merlin the dog [note family photo of Sarah, parents and dog on her mirror], while stepmom won’t let him in [“NOT THE DOG!”]. In her physical appearance and her character, stepmom is harsher, more realistic and a tougher disciplinarian than birth mom.

Stepmom works hard at being a good mom. She goes out frequently with Sarah’s dad [probably not “every weekend,” as Sarah claims, but often enough to keep the spark alive], but also spends time with her children. Toby’s getting along fine, but stepmom worries about Sarah. Is she socially and emotionally on track? Stepmom doubts it: “I’d like it if you had dates at your age!” she exclaims to Sarah. Sarah responds by throwing a fit and storming upstairs. While particularly concerned about her stepdaughter, stepmom doesn’t know how to communicate with her and tell Sarah that she does, in fact, love her. Stepmom’s comment to dad – “She treats me like a wicked stepmother in a fairy story no matter what I say!” – summarizes stepmom’s hurt, frustration…and probably some of her broken heart that she can’t get through to Sarah.

Sarah’s dad seems rather unhappy too, but it’s difficult to tell. The guy has about four lines, mostly delivered from behind doors. That in and of itself should tell you something about him. He addresses the pissed-off Sarah through the door because he feels threatened by her fits. He also feels awkward around her overheated imaginative life – notice how he won’t cross the threshold into her room – but has no clue about how to address his worries with Sarah. The door provides protection for dad against any outbursts from Sarah, while it also conceals his embarrassment. Sarah’s dad’s unobtrusive, clueless, self-effacing style hides a man who sees his daughter grieving and his new wife hurting [viz. previous paragraphs] and who chooses to withdraw, rather than deal with these familial problems directly.

At the center of a family wrapped up in its own troubles, Sarah longs for a substitute family, a better one. Is Jareth an alternative parental figure? In some ways, he contrasts favorably with Sarah’s dad. He likes the baby [I’ve got a whole essay about that]; he pays attention to Sarah [note Hoggle’s remark: “The Cleaners, the Bog of Stench: you sure got his attention!”], while Sarah’s dad seems aloof and flustered. Jareth promotes Sarah’s fantasies [with drugged peaches] while Sarah’s dad puts the door between himself and Sarah’s imaginary worlds. Finally, Jareth wields power over life, death and time, which is highly attractive for a girl whose dad never actually does anything. Jareth may be an erotic figure, a representation of Sarah’s ambivalence over adolescent sexuality, but he also provides a model of pervertedly paternalistic involvement that Sarah may wish for, given her unhappy home life in the real world.


“I’d like it if you had dates at your age!”

I always identified with this line. I almost never was asked out as a teenager. I had a couple relationships that lasted maybe a month each? But never was asked out. It seems to me that the reason Sarah and her step mother don’t get along is because her step-mother is completely misjudging who sarah is. Her saying that probably touches the nerve that Sarah DOESN’T get asked out on dates or has friends because she’s odd. Sarah idolizes her absent mother thinking, “She’d understand!” when clearly the mother wouldn’t since she abandoned Sarah. I think Jareth is more a symbol of Sarah’s mother and a mirror to Sarah’s own actions. She’s making her problems out to be bigger than anyone elses’s and wanted things to revolve around her- as is Jareth. Jareth offers and is everything Sarah thinks she wants, but I think she realizes in the end that what we want isn’t always what we need.

Re not having dates. That line always pissed me off because the stepmom assumed that having an active imagination should be substituted by having dates. I always liked to think that you could have an active imagination and dates. I did.

Hmmmm, Jareth as idealized mother or symbol of absent mother? That’s interesting. You could definitely make a case for that. The clippings on Sarah’s mirror show that her birth mom is an actor. The clippings also feature an article called “The Onstage Kiss,” which associates birth mom with romance as well. As a hammy and romantic [?!] character who indulges Sarah [even encourages Sarah to “play with her toys and her costumes” rather than Toby], Jareth does represent Sarah’s idealized mom in some way…or the way that Sarah wishes her mom was. Maybe Jareth combines characteristics of the idealized mom and the idealized dad and the idealized lover. Sheesh…I wonder if he represents some traits of Sarah’s idealized self, a person who has power over everything?

Re “what we want isn’t always what we need.” In the immortal words of Mick Jagger, I firmly believe that “you can’t always get what you want, but, if you try sometimes, you just might find that you’ll get what you need.” Thanks for your thoughts.


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